Pulling my hair out

What would you do if you have people trying to run your planning of your marriage. Pull your hair out right. LOL that is exactly what I am doing.

First off there is my friends who don't know anything about marriage and haven't planned a wedding before put their 2 cents in it. I am all up for advice and ideas but come on now seriously. I have one that's trying to get me to change my wedding colors and then there is one that don't like the bridesmaids dresses. It's really not for you to like am I right or am I right LOL. I have one that just don't like nothing I am doing and I really never asked her for her opinion. But she keeps putting nose where it don't belong. I just really feel like pulling my hair out because I don't know how much I can take at this point.

My Wedding Dress

So yes of course my wedding isn't until next year November I have been looking for my wedding dress for a while now. I have fell in and out of love with so many dresses but there is one that has caught my eye and it has been a month and I still have the same feelings for the dress. I absolutely love it. I will be going to David's bridal sadley to say to try on dresses. I am only doing it for my mom. If it was me I will settle and dont go and try on dresses but she wants to see me in them. I am so excited that I found my dress. I so love it. I talked to my future husband to see what kind of style of dress he would love to see me in and I must say he will be very happy. lol I have been so nervous to try on dresses I am just thrilled at this point. I have to get it custom made but hey at least I found one that I can say yes too. It just feels so good.

I have been contemplating about ordering from online but the bridal salon I did go in didn't have my size dress so I tried on the dress in a smaller size and of course the back couldn't close but I still fell in love with it. So I am taking a risk with ordering it I just hope it comes the way I want it and I still like it.

Meet with some Caters

I don't even know where to begin. I didn't even want to meet with them but my mother thought it would be best but it wasn't. I already told her I want to have a buffet style reception but she just kept pushing the idea of seeing some caters.

Anyways we go over the weekend met with 3 and all 3 times was a horrible experience. I didn't like the food at all and they was very pricey. Why pay 40 dollars per person to eat I mean really do you know how much that will be. I don't think so that was the first cater. The 2nd one said we would have to have our own servers for a set price of 800 dollars thats including alcohol too. Now the 3rd one food was flat out nasty. It tasted like they was cooking with tar lol. I will not have my guest getting sick. I have stuck with my decision to have a buffet style wedding where everyone can pick and choose what they want. I hate pickey eaters so at least they will have a huge selection to choose from.

Having a cater might be good for some people but not me. I love the food I eat and I will not try anything that is nasty or that's gonna be way out my budget. My mother has set up at least 2 more appointments to meet with caters but hey she can go all by herself because I am done with them. I appluade her effort but I am not hiring one. I hope she will get it when I don't show to the next appointment.

My budget for the food is 1,000 dollars that's including the drinks because we gots to have the alcoholic beverages as what my Fiance says. I will not pay more. I might even pay that much for my buffet style reception who knows I am just gonna follow my gut.

Awwwwww why all the Bickering

So I have this friend whom I have been friends with for 5 years now. We use to do everything together including being pregnant together. Since she has had another baby she thinks she is to good for anyone. Well really we stop hanging out before that but anyways. Since I told her I was getting married she has been so envy over me. She was engaged before but it didn't work and now that is my turn she tries to rain on my happiness but that aint happening. Well here is the start of it. She has been telling our mutual friends how I copy here and how I am not getting married at all. Once one of our friends showed her the picture of my ring she wants to all of a sudden call me to talk to hang out. Now here is the Bickering part. She just assumed she is going to be a bridesmaid ha I don't know who told her that. LOL. Anyways I have been receiving endless phone calls from different people telling me what she has been saying I am getting so tired of it all.

So I talk to my Fiance about this and he says you know what to do. So here comes today while I am at work she texts me and calling me non stop. She wants to know why she is not a bridesmaid. I finally called her back and let her know the reason. After it is all said and done I am the one who is choosing my Bridesmaids not no one else. so I told her she is not one and that was final. I told her she will be invited but it is her choice if she wants to attend. Then she starts yelling at me because she is not a bridesmaid.


What the world what did I do.

540 days left

Seems like a long way but the days is passing so fast. I am always sitting and wondering trying to imagine the wedding day. All I can really picture his my Future Husband standing at the alter smiling at me. I can tell you I love that man so much. Never would of imagine getting married again. Yes I did say again. The first one was a rush one and didn't work. It was a court house thing but with this one it is going to be a traditional one with friends and family. I know this is the right thing to do. I have been waiting for this for so long and now here I am planning away. Just started planning though but I am having so much fun. My life has changed tremendously since I been with him. He has stepped up and is taken care of my son, he has loved me the way I should be loved and overall he is a family man and that's what I love about him. Now that I am actually going through this I have been asking myself why now why this one. I just think it all is coming from being married once before. I have been so happy since the day he asked me to marry him. Which that was Feb. the 14th will never forget that day.