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Friday, May 20, 2011

Awwwwww why all the Bickering

So I have this friend whom I have been friends with for 5 years now. We use to do everything together including being pregnant together. Since she has had another baby she thinks she is to good for anyone. Well really we stop hanging out before that but anyways. Since I told her I was getting married she has been so envy over me. She was engaged before but it didn't work and now that is my turn she tries to rain on my happiness but that aint happening. Well here is the start of it. She has been telling our mutual friends how I copy here and how I am not getting married at all. Once one of our friends showed her the picture of my ring she wants to all of a sudden call me to talk to hang out. Now here is the Bickering part. She just assumed she is going to be a bridesmaid ha I don't know who told her that. LOL. Anyways I have been receiving endless phone calls from different people telling me what she has been saying I am getting so tired of it all.

So I talk to my Fiance about this and he says you know what to do. So here comes today while I am at work she texts me and calling me non stop. She wants to know why she is not a bridesmaid. I finally called her back and let her know the reason. After it is all said and done I am the one who is choosing my Bridesmaids not no one else. so I told her she is not one and that was final. I told her she will be invited but it is her choice if she wants to attend. Then she starts yelling at me because she is not a bridesmaid.


What the world what did I do.

540 days left

Seems like a long way but the days is passing so fast. I am always sitting and wondering trying to imagine the wedding day. All I can really picture his my Future Husband standing at the alter smiling at me. I can tell you I love that man so much. Never would of imagine getting married again. Yes I did say again. The first one was a rush one and didn't work. It was a court house thing but with this one it is going to be a traditional one with friends and family. I know this is the right thing to do. I have been waiting for this for so long and now here I am planning away. Just started planning though but I am having so much fun. My life has changed tremendously since I been with him. He has stepped up and is taken care of my son, he has loved me the way I should be loved and overall he is a family man and that's what I love about him. Now that I am actually going through this I have been asking myself why now why this one. I just think it all is coming from being married once before. I have been so happy since the day he asked me to marry him. Which that was Feb. the 14th will never forget that day.